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This was sooooooo good - I took notes!!

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Yes! I want to do more of these. People showing up as who they are, not prmarily based on their "professional" roles.

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Yes - and even so, their "professional" understanding made them such fascinating commentators on parenthood and leadership . . . this was healing for me.

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Exact;ly! We weren't debating their view, we were attending to what it was like to be them. You could feel the tension inside yourself when you agreed or disagreed with what they were saying. Both men were very transparent about how they held their views. Not sure it could be pulled off with other people. I kinda knew these two would show up.

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I think one of the most powerful messages they delivered was that there is no ONE right way to do this - especially loved when Jonathan answered Brian's questions about his daughters by assuring him that he was probably doing a much better job than he thought. Also loved how this whole conversation dovetailed with the "scientist in the crib" stuff!

Made me think about how my daughter and I can "trigger" each other - but also gave me more of a sense of how to avoid those traps.

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Very rewarding for me to see this work adding real-life benefits to people, beyond just the conceptual stuff.

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YES!

"Conceptual stuff" is everywhere!

"This made me a better human" - is rarer and more valuable!

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Feb 11, 2022Liked by Bonnitta Roy

Hey friends in the Pop Up School. This was a really wonderful conversation. Check it out. It has many dimensions; and something impacted me so deeply, that after participating I was in a very altered state. Thank you very much Bonnie.

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Feb 10, 2022Liked by Bonnitta Roy

This was a very timely happening for me in a moment of wobble.

Thanks again to all

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Oh those moments of wobble...I'm glad this came along for you JJ

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Feb 12, 2022Liked by Bonnitta Roy

Very much. Your words about that occasional drive to turn away from the call, rang out for me.

I guess sometimes, regardless of if its what i actually want, I just feel like I want more of a choice in the matter. At times it feels like there isn't much of one..

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Yes..I am sensing these days, more and more, into what choice is, and how we can expand the possibilities of real choice in each other and ourselves. As Forrest Landry says, "Love is that which enables choice."

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